之前在朋友手上收到一封email。 看了觉得很有意思。
其实人生是什么? 它可以是很无奈,也可以很光彩。 一切都在看我们要怎样去抉择。
当一大堆的事情堆到你的头上时,你会怎么去做选择呢? 我想我缺的东西就是这个吧。
迷失也许只是我想逃避的借口。 重要的事情我总是能够逃避就逃避,尽量不要去面对。 这就是懦弱的我。 考试要到了,我的书本却还没有被解冻(还在雪藏着) 我想也是时候让我去把他们都解冻了。
有时,看东西不要太小心是件好事~~ 压力每个人都有,重要的是怎样去处理压力。 锁匙在手里了,可是如果没有努力,有锁匙也不能打开着到大门的。 为我的大学/人生的门努力是值得的。
有人觉得有才华是很好的事情,一定要去发掘。 可是有时不由得我们来做取舍。 现实生活总是把学业和文凭摆在前头。 难道你要靠画画还是打球吃饭吗?
我没有歧视任何职业,也没有任何诋毁的意思。 只是知道一个林丹可以打出中国得到世界第一, 可是又有多少个林丹花了一生的时间去练球而没有被选中呢? 在别人风光的脚下,其实都埋着无数的尸骸。 这就是我们的社会,一个恐怖的社会。
学业好=前途好?也许是吧。 可是身边的例子都不一样,成绩好都不会怎么成功。 这世界到底在玩什么把戏阿? 注重文凭的社会却不是成绩好的赚大钱。 那么我们那么辛苦干什么? 哎哟,不要再说了啦!!再想下去就快没时间做功课了。 是时候回去睡觉了,太困了乱说一通而已,对不起!!
有共鸣的话不妨留下痕迹,好让我知道,哈哈!!!
more.. When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, When 24 Hours in a day is not enough, Remember the jar and 2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous 'yes'.
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things:
God, family, children, health, friends, and favorite passions - things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else - the small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.'
The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, You will never have room for the things that are important to you.
So...
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play With your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.
'Take care of the golf balls first --the things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand'
One of the students raised her hand and inquired What the coffee represented?
The professor smiled. 'I'm glad you asked'.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'
Please share this with someone you care about.
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